The question on everyone's mind: How present is Kanye West in his children's lives after the divorce? Kim Kardashian recently opened up about the challenges of co-parenting with Ye, formerly known as Kanye West, revealing some surprising details about his involvement with their four kids: North, Saint, Chicago, and Psalm. Their seven-year marriage, which ended in divorce in 2022, has presented ongoing complexities when it comes to raising their children.
During a candid conversation on the "Call Her Daddy" podcast, Kim got incredibly honest about the frequency of Kanye's contact with their children. When host Alex Cooper directly asked, "When was the last time that Kanye saw the kids?" Kim paused, then responded with a noticeable hesitation: "Hmm. Whenever he'll call for them and ask... It's probably been a couple months since we've heard from him?" This admission immediately sparks curiosity. Is this a temporary situation, or a recurring pattern?
Kim explained that her kids are aware of their father's lifestyle, which often involves extensive travel and living in different countries. "[Our kids] always knew that he had a big life traveling before and was always on tour and all of that, and that he lives in different countries all the time and loves to live all over the place." She emphasized her efforts to provide stability and normalcy for them, stating, "We manage it really well. They love their life and their routine and their schedule. [My] job as their mom is to make sure that they stick to their routine and that they're healthy and happy." She paints a picture of resilience and adaptation.
But here's where it gets controversial... While Kim maintains a positive outlook, she acknowledged the inherent difficulties of the situation. "Look, it's not easy, no matter what." She also stated her unwavering commitment to allowing her children to see their father whenever he requests. "Every time he asks, I will always let them see their father. That's just who I am." However, she also draws a firm boundary when she feels the situation becomes "super unhealthy," indicating she's willing to step in to protect her children's well-being by suggesting alternative arrangements, such as visits at her home or rescheduling. This raises the question: What constitutes "unhealthy" in this context, and who gets to decide?
Kim delved deeper into the reasons behind their divorce, revealing that Kanye's behavior during their marriage often crossed the line. She cited his "toxic" behavior and the need to protect her family as primary motivators for ending the relationship. One significant factor was Kanye's tendency to speak negatively about those closest to her and their children. "There was just a lot of things that I wouldn't deal with. I didn't like the feeling of someone talking bad about my kids, grandmother, aunts — all of those feelings. If someone feels that way, then we shouldn't be together." She also revealed that Kanye betrayed her trust by publicly disclosing personal information, leading her to feel emotionally unsafe.
And this is the part most people miss... Kim also shared a specific anecdote about Kanye's unpredictable behavior. She recounted an incident where she returned home to find her garage, which previously housed five Lamborghinis, completely empty. Kanye had given the cars away to his friends. These "episodes," linked to his mental health struggles, created a sense of instability and anxiety for Kim. "You never know what you're going to get when you wake up, and that's a really unsettling feeling. Lack of stability was a big thing." This highlights the immense pressure and uncertainty she faced during their marriage. It's important to remember that mental health challenges can significantly impact relationships, and support is crucial.
Ultimately, Kim made the difficult decision to end her marriage to prioritize her mental health and set a positive example for her children. "Once my mental health starts to get affected and I can't parent the way I need to and I can't be present or focused, there's got to be one of us that can. I had to save myself to be a better mom, and I think that when everyone's older, they'll be able to see it and understand it all." Her decision underscores the importance of self-care and prioritizing one's well-being, especially when children are involved. She's hoping that her kids will understand her choices as they grow older, and that her actions will demonstrate the importance of mental and emotional health.
Kim's openness about the challenges of co-parenting with Kanye raises many questions. Do you think she's handling the situation in the best way possible? Is it fair to expect a parent with mental health challenges to maintain a consistent presence in their children's lives? Where do you draw the line between supporting a co-parent and protecting your children? Share your thoughts and opinions in the comments below.
